Sara,
Unfortunately it is not possible right now. She is refusing to entertain anything to do with our marriage. I think until she works through her issues she does not want to think about us. I hope that when she's ready she will be willing to do that. My fear is that she will try to make a decision on her own and only if she thinks she is able to commit then she would be willing to work on the marriage. To me that is backward and could be fatal to our marriage. Since things like Retrouvaille will provide hope and understanding so one can make a more informed decision.....


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93