Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

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BM07,
I have read DR and implemented much of what is in there to some success. It seems though that I will get some momentum and then hit a wall and go back farther then I was before.

I am totally detaching from her, "going dark". She is going to the river with a male "friend" that I have had suspicions of in the past. In all honesty, I am looking forward to the seperation. I am going to miss them, especially my son, but I think I need to get some time to myself during all of this.

All I want to do now is work on me. I am looking for C'ing. As long as I can still spend time with my son I am going to be okay. She wants time to think and figure it out, I am going to do my best to give it to her...I guess you can say I am giving it to God to work out...