Heim, I am not going to hit you with a 2X4. I am going to kick you square in the nuts!!! You have got to get control over yourself. You have got to do it now. You are causing yourself to be in a constant tailspin. Stop worrying about what your wife is doing or who she is doing it with. You can not change it, you can not control it, all you can do is fuel it and the is exactly what you are doing. You can control you, you can change you and you have been. Keep your focus on you and not on her. Do it for you do it for your daughters. Look at all the passionate responses you have gotten from the members here today alone. We all want you to succeed, but we are all pulling our hair out (well some of us) about the things you are doing. Get control of yourself. That is the one thing you can control, so DO IT.
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“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
