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[Yoyowife]

I'm so sorry. Go ahead and cry and get it out of your system. I know it hurts so badly. I think it's time you saw a doctor if you haven't seen one already to look into AD's. I resisted a few months getting on them thinking I could get my emotions under control by myself. I was wrong. I wish had done it much sooner. Please look after yourself. The only hope you have of getting her back is to change yourself because we aren't capable of changing our spouses. We have to take charge of our lives.

Hugs, Yoyo