Gee, I thought you fell off the face of the earth! I am so glad to hear from you. I did send you an email. That meant the world to me that you would give me that.
I did read your stitch and yes, I think we do have a lot in common. I was very worried when you suddenly left and I didn't hear anymore from you.
I understand a lot of what was warned to me about the OM in my life. In a couple of weeks, it will be my three month mark without contact with OM! It has not been easy, but it is getting a lot better. I will tell anyone that will just listen for a second to me that....that is the only way to start getting over him and to start healing and trying to get back a R with your H. You have to stop all contact....period. It won't work at all if you don't cut it off completely.
People that say they have to continue to work in the same place that they had an A with OP.......I just don't know how that can go on day to day.....I mean, it would be hell on earth! I know it is easier said than done, but for me.....I would have to find another work place b/c I would not be strong enough (I don't think) to handle it until I could get through that emotional grief or withdrawal.....whatever you want to call it.
Anyway........so good to see you back. Please stay with us b/c we need you! I need you! There aren't that many of us that are WAW (in heart) that stick it out on here...or at least I've not heard from that many. LBS can be hard of us....but we need to hear it from their POV to wake us up and get our eyes off our own pain long enough to see theirs.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
