My W has also stated for years that she has worked through her FOO...
What about you and your foo? What strengths did you gain from your family, what weaknesses? What are/were some of the issues that you have dealt with or are dealing with today? If you have identified poor skills derived from your foo, what steps, if any, have you taken in order to not pass those on to your children?
Do you believe that an adult's shortcomings are all a result of his/her foo or do you think that some of failings/weakness/vulnerabilities are a result of the individual's personality and/or personal choices?
