What are 'people like me?'

People who say that I contributed to the relationship "deteriorating" to a point where he became vulnerable. I guess it would have been more accurate to say people who will question my role.

the R deteriorating to a point that he was vulnerable enough to make that decision, you did play a part in.

You don't have to prove a darn thing to me.

\:\) I know that. I choose to face the fact I have not perfectly dealt with everything yet. I choose to face up to that demon in me that fears that my imperfection was the cause of the affair. It is not an every day thing I deal with and is not a huge issue but it is an issue that comes around and I need to deal with it.

I guess it is also a goal of mine to help people understand their own issues well enough that they do not make the same mistake my XH did.

By the way, that was me being fiery and passionate not angry and p!ssed. I'm not sure if you can tell the difference in written word \:\)



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus