You don't have to prove a darn thing to me. I was only putting out there, hopefully in another way, what I think Cobra might have been driving at. He may very well show up here and say, 'no, no, no, don't listen to Corri, she is full of beans... I meant...'
And then I've stuck my nose in where it probably doesn't belong... again.
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I do not see it as that easy to determine which spouse is the one with the problem but that is my opinion.
IMHO, it is seldom just one person with the 'problem.' I understand the whole notion of... 'well, if I had been perfect, then problem solved!'
And if he was the one with the problem... why was it so hard to accept that? Why were you the one who was always being the one to own your imperfection, change, try something else... kwis? That's rhetorical... no need to respond. BTDT myself.
