Definitely do the "put together" thing. When I was in divorce and H came to pick up the kids for dinner on Wednesday nights I made sure I looked super HOT. From my eyebrows to my toenails... perfume, something a little more low-cut then usual. Oh yeah!!! I still make sure I look good when going out with him or even my girlfriends because I'm determined to keep my husband on his toes.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
