Well, the emnail is a few days off, so we'll see. I hope that the excitement of being on his own and "liberated" - his word - has worn off and he is finally settling into what will be his ne3w life - living paycheck to paycheck in a sparse apt. - I am guessing..... he hasn;t taken anything but cliothes from here... We never had $ worries, and could do/buy whatever we wanted. I feel ad that I want him to bottom out, but he needs to for anything to move forward for him, and I hope for our marriagew. Keep the faith - I'll see it when I believe it5. I;m on my own with the faith - I've got to be strong.