I hope it will open his eyes to a few things. First of all, women who are trying to trap him. I would not call Kevin a good catch, but he presents himself well. The problem is there's not much below the surface, just his father and me propping him up.
Sara- it's probably a good thing if there is a miscarriage then and hopefully it will have brought him up a bit short. You don't want to end up doing child care thing again yet, when you are just reaping the benfits yourself of the kids being older.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I don't want to start trouble or anything, and I understand that it may not be a "wanted" pregnancy, but its still a pregnancy.. and I guess because I had a miscarriage im sensative to it, its a devasting thing to go through and I know if its the god's will so be it, but its still truly hard to go through a miscarriage.
I do pray for your son's gf and your son, as she has to be going through turmoil right now.
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I'm not unsympathetic - don't get me wrong.When I was expecting my son I had a really bad bleed at 11 wks and was told that I had lost a baby - wld have had twins - at least I got one of them - but it is bad. Sometimes these things happen for whatever reason - and usually early on because they weren't meant to be. Nowadays we can know we are preganant from day we miss our first period. Years ago we would never have known we were pregnant until much later and so would never have known we had had a miscarriage - we'd have just thought we were irregular. The knowledge is not always good.
Also I have teenage daughters and I would not want to see them weighed down with children to young. I know I would end up taking on the child care and I am still raising my younger ones!!!
I am very sorry for your loss. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
no worries saffie, I just hate to hear it. I sometimes think it was the daughter that I never had.. I have two boys. It still bothers me at times, especially since I had knowone to support me.. although my H was great through it "that was a suprise" When it happend my H was 3 hours away I had to call my SIL and she didn't even drive me.. I drove me and my S4 and she followed me.. what an idiot.. thank goodness I didn't pass out.. family sucks sometimes..
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
They sure do. My H was hoping I would lose THE baby as we thought it was at the time, as it was an unplanned pregnancy, and he knew I didn't believe in abortion, (for me that is. I think it is a personal choice). He loves his son - don't get me wrong, and he is a great dad, but I sometimes think I went on and had child 4 - a planned pregnancy- to make up for the lost baby.
How far along were you when you miscarried?
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
