(((HUGS))) lwb, I'm so sorry you are so sick! take care of yourself. wish I were there to make you some soup and take the burden off a bit.
of course you are angry. of course you are resentful. one of the things my friend said to me is the more you do, the less they have to do. he doesn't have to ask because he knows you will take care of it. maybe tell him he needs to step up more re: sitters and such. I think what helps with H and I is that now that we are separated, we have definite nights that are his...only a couple, but he knows he is responsible for finding a sitter for those nights (although I have first dibs on having the kids, if he's going out...that much we learned after last month's fiasco).
not stuff you should be thinking about right now. just take care of yourself, hope you and the kids are feeling better soon.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
