I'm not unsympathetic - don't get me wrong.When I was expecting my son I had a really bad bleed at 11 wks and was told that I had lost a baby - wld have had twins - at least I got one of them - but it is bad. Sometimes these things happen for whatever reason - and usually early on because they weren't meant to be. Nowadays we can know we are preganant from day we miss our first period. Years ago we would never have known we were pregnant until much later and so would never have known we had had a miscarriage - we'd have just thought we were irregular. The knowledge is not always good.
Also I have teenage daughters and I would not want to see them weighed down with children to young. I know I would end up taking on the child care and I am still raising my younger ones!!!
I am very sorry for your loss. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
