GD Thanks,
I know when I spoke to my W today I did feel emotional on the call, but you're right, I won't go to her with my problems, I'll try to get through this. One of the tough things is the financial strain, not that it matters at this point, but I had about 3 years left on my mortgage, and a very manageable one at that. Now my mortgage has doubled and it's now for 30 years, and I don't have a job!

just took a break to answer the phone.....it was my wife just calling me to see how I was doing, she told me everything will end up fine, we talked for about 10 minutes, longer than anytime since she moved out. I wish I had her optimism, perhaps after a nights sleep I will feel better. She thinks I should wait until I pick my son up on Friday to tell him that I've lost my job, so that I can reassure him everything will be fine, I thought the same thing, so thats what I'll do.

How about you GD? Anything positive with you and your W lately?
I just starting re-reading DR again, I should be reading "How to find a job" instead. You also told me to not throw myself a "Pity Party", I'll have to remember that, because right at this moment, I have a strong urge to do so, but I won't.

Thanks very much for being an unknown friend, I'll be back to ask more of your sound advice.
Good luck to you.


"We're here for a good time, not a long time"
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M:48
W: 43
S;20, S;10
Married: 14 Years / Together 17 Years
Bomb Dropped: 2/4/07
Separated: 6/29/07
D to be filed by my W soon.