Man, I'm sorry to hear about the latest slip! I trust you've decided not to mention to W that you were at the house, not to mention snooping through her undies.
Originally Posted By: oldtimer
BTW Heim, this is the kind of thing I was talking about last week: "We really could build a beautiful life together."
You *really* don't know what an M that would work for both of you would be like.
I'd like to add to this that as long as you're chanting this mantra, you're likely coming across as a desperate salesman, and you're selling something the W don't want. You're still trying to convince her---that you could be great together, that you've changed, etc---but it's about her. I'm glad to see you're deciding to put the focus back on you.