How many details of OP did you get, want, need?

[saffie]

I can understand why cat says it's not good maybe to know all the details; it hurts - but sometimes you maybe have to work thro' the pain if that is what is necessary for you.

How you are about Disney I am about my youngest D's birthday. It was on ehr birthday in June 06 that H was last intimate with OW. B'days are a big deal and this was the first time my H had been away fro any of our children's b'days - and then to know that he was with OW INSTEAD!!!!! This year my D was excired, as kids are, for a good month in the run up to her B Everytime she metioned what she wanted or what type of party she wanted I nearly threw up. NOT HER FAULT but it still hurt. Even so I would still rather know and my H rtied really hard to turn it back into a special day - for me aswell as my D.

For me it helps to know these things. I have to walk through the pain and gradually beat it.

Saffie