I was doing that to provoke a reaction from my H, but I know now it's only me that gets hurt and it doesn't solve anything either!

Is your H a talker? Mine is a typical caveman, so would rather live in silence than confront an issue. It's a really negative thing to be angry for past issues and why go snooping? What are you looking for? Do you think he is involved in an A/EA?

I was adviced on this board to stop all mind games and to act 'as if'. If neither of you wanted to be together then why spend nights at each other's houses?

Why the divorce and why are you scared of getting closer to him? What is his/your history?

XD

P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07