Thanks SA...I'm going to my wife's apt tonight after work to talk about the email today where she said she had a lot of stuff to tell me. I am SO AFRAID to hear what she is going to say. I know it's not about coming back. I am shaking right now with anxiety wondering if she is going to tell me that the OTHER MAN has and is more than just a friend. I don't want to hear that she has been romantically involved with him even though she has said all along that he is just a friend even though she has some feelings.