Hi Ginger. I really wish it's that easy. I try to be firm but the W isn't backing me up. She's buying him toys all the time now out of her guilt I think. In fact over the years I've always been frustrated with my W's parenting methods. She tries to "talk" to my S4 instead of being firm. And she always thinks I am being too harsh. She is very over-protective of the kids. She said she'll make an effort in that department but who knows if it'll happen.


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93