My life don't fit the book, please help.

[mcojh]

Lester-

1-Listen to Frank. He is a learned and wise man.
2-Read my sitch, I have been where you are and fall often. If it wasn't for Frank, Theo and my DB Gal Pals, I think I would be in the loony bin by now. As it is, I only sit in front of it.
3-To piggyback on Frank, not condoning behavior does not equal controling. You can tell her that you do not feel that it is right to go golfing with him and let her make up her mind.
4-Lastly, look up David Cunningham's website, makingherhappy.com and read some of his stuff. He is a little over the top sometimes, but he is also makes some good points.

Good luck brother.