Well, don't know what it is, could be backlash from great sex last Sunday.... She's now saying the she doesn't really miss me and she's happier when I'm not around. When before she has said she's happy to see me and she does miss me and she loves me. I really hate this.... Whatever.... At least we both agreed that we both really need to work hard on not get into unpleasant arguments. She misunderstands me a lot through her anger goggles. I'm not really sure what I can do besides just not say much of anything.
So it seems that my S4 now misbehaves badly in the presence of both the W and I. He's fine with just her, or fine with just me. So now the W thinks that I'm the cause of all that stress so my presence isn't welcome. Of course she doesn't think that maybe it's cuz the S4 isn't happy with our S. It's not me, it's the situation. Any suggestions for situations like this? How I can stop the meltdowns? I have tried give him as much attention as possible... I know he really misses me. Yes I can just only see the kids and stay away from the W each visit. But we both really want the kids to feel they still have a family.... And plus I do want to sneak in some positive experiences with the W if possible....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
