Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

[NoDirection]

This is the second string on the locked thread and I put it here due to the amount of traffic and hopefully insight I will receive from this thread.

My sitch has been ongoing for about four months now. I do not know if I have a WAW or she has been invoved in a EA/PA or if she is struggling through a midlife crisis. All of these features have come into our R in the past four months. Here is the update.

Over the weekend had another huge spat that now has us living in seperate rooms in the house. That is nothing new since she has lived on the couch for about the past three. What the core of the problem has been is the lack of an identity for my wife. She all of a sudden wanted to go out without me and enjoy the night life. She has told me the ILYBNILWY line a few times now. The toughest part of this is that we have a 2 year old son that is now the primary reason why we are still together.

As for the weekend, got into another fight over me coming into a bar to ask her to leave, I was in another bar with friends, and finding her with another man's arm around her as she sat at the bar. The figth spilled over to home where I did a few things that I am very ashamed of.

Since then the tension has died down again and we are somewhat on a talking relationship. I just do not know how much longer I can handle this. Who I can talk to and where this is all headed...I will keep this updated as best as I can and hope to gain some insight from those who have had similar struggles to mine...