Sara,
Maybe this was the wake up call he needs. Perhaps it will let him grow up some and see the errors of his ways, and that he needs to take reponsibility for his ownself before he can care for a child.

I'm sure you have mixed emotions about the miscarriage, but as they say things will work themselves out.

Kim




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon