What matters and what we need or want to know differs for each of us. The sex thing mattered to me. My H says exactly the same to me - that we have the best sex together and that OW just didn't compare. I did go into details on the board once - don't know whether you saw that? If you did then enough said. If you want to know more or email privately about this then send me an email. Quantity mattered to me to. 5 times H said and I believe him - we went through diaries.
If your H was drunk I bet the sex was awful. Jeeze alcohol is well known for it's effects that way!!!
Does your H complain about how long it takes? Mine seems to enjoy the time. I guess it depends on how long they want to go on for. I don't always O if I know he wants to obviously come sonner than me.
Email me if you want.
Thanks for the anniversary congrats. Hope fully we'll still be in touch at my 23 and your 25 anniversaries!!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength