new here and really worried

[GoodGuy]

I don't want to hijack your thread Lost, but since I've been here following I'd like to ask a piece of advice from everyone;
Today I lost my job after 14 years, eliminated the position!
The first thing I did was call my wife to tell her, I needed to tell her. She asked me why I lost it and the usual questions, then had to let me go, but she called me as soon as I got home.
I told her that 2007 has been a really crappy year, since we broke up after 14 years married, I lost my job after 14 years, and I'll lose the (our) house next, also after 14 years.
My wife said "Don't say that, the year isn't over yet".
What does that mean? Does she mean I'll find another job and everything will be fine? Does she mean that 2007 isn't over yet, it could get better, ie: Us getting back together?
As good as 1993 was (new wife / new house / new job), 2007 is the reverse, I try to believe that things are meant to be, but I feel really, really crappy today.
Anyway, back to what my W said, she hasn't given me any hint of reconcilliation, we are kind to each other, but don't spend any time together, so is she just trying to sooth my feelings?
Anyhow, I thought I couldn't get any lower what with my wife gone and my family broken up, and now I'm out of work too! Any advice or ideas would really be welcomed.