It's like they can almost smell it when you are ready to move on and then they reel you back.
It's that kind of "I might not want you, but whilst I make damn sure, I am going to make sure no-one else gets you" scenario.
Then, it is probably you being wanted by someone else, or moving on, that changes you odour again from that of 'maybe?' to that of 'I want it back' in many cases.
Just look out for you and live your life according to your inner truth and self. Hopefully she will see you change from being a doormat to being Axminster carpet, (do you get that in the States? It's expensive quality carpeting). Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
