Went to get a Tarot spread done yesterday. It was GOOD. Confirmed my view on the situation and my goals, too. The counsellour said that these days it is VERY important for both of us to not stay together. This is like the only chance for another chance... ;-) And that I have to concentrate fully on myself and my creativity. To get my ideas going again.... - no matter what he says or if he is "compensating" as fast as I do. Which he basically does not seem to be. She said he would be suffering even more than I do.... (No wonder, I didn't cheat on him.... )
The other woman was NOT in the cards. So it seems that her influence on the entire situation is to basically neglect (STRIKE!) No bad future cards (as I always had after breaking up) - everything is still open and the relationship is not really finished. But on "pause". Business matters are the topic now. And after going through this - Relationship & Business-Hell, I know that we will only be able to manage one of it at the time. Another card said: SEE THE GOAL BEHIND THE GOAL. And that's kind of nice: first goal -> get financially stable. second goal -> get our relationship stable again. And that can definately go along with each other, can't it?
So once again I got proof for what everybody here and I already know: gotta stay tuned with myself - and everything will go the right way!
So, actually for everyone in here: if you need some hint on if the situation is managable and HOW to handle it, Tarot Readings are not the worst thing to do. They reflect your state of mind/heart, situations and possibilities and allow you to get a bigger picture on it.
I will keep you posted on how things are going on.... Thanks for your reading, posting and support,