I'm looking at your latest post in a different light. Showing up without letting her know your coming and wanting to talk about an issueshe was not at all ready to talk about probably just set her up to be irritated. It was pursuit by another name. With the best intention, you went there totally prepared to try and fix what she TOLD you the issue was, but as Dom said sometimes "the issue" is not THE "issue". You were geared up to try and fix the sitch. She was not in that frame of mine, and was caught totally off guard. You're not doing anything the rest of us haven't done, but can you see the pursuit/semi-ambush side of this?
