[quote=jak58IMHO it is hard to blame OW for what is going on because you and H are not married. She is not going after a married man and you don't know3 what line of crap he may be giving her either.(or do you)?

It sounds like you are dealing with someone who does not want to grow up.

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You are right, I can't blame OW....but seems to me that if a guy told me his exwife was pregnant with his child and he spends nights and days with her, I would run for the hills. Also, out of respect for an unborn child and as a woman I would back the heck off.

I don't know what he tells her. I know at one point I did see a text telling her that this was the way it had to be... whatever that meant.

People say that relationships can be addictions. When we were separated and exh was a schmuck I was hanging on for whatever reason when I should have been running. My counselor thought I was addicted to him. Why can't I be addicted to a guy with some integrity?

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!