MC,
I don't know if you have read anything on Marriagebuilders.com, but I found myself agreeing with a lot on this article, well the part about how it all starts. Not to the reconciliation part, but it does explain it.

http://marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5525_qa.html


Yoy



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