Have been reading some of IMP`s postings and I am slowly beginning to embrace the concept of detaching and finding that it is of benefit.As far as me "going dark"is concerned it seems I don`t have to bother W has done it for me. Have seen her only very breifly in the last 10 days and then by accident. She has stopped texting or phoning no mention of seeing the dog, no enquiries about the camper van or the proceeds from it`s sale. She hasn`t been near the house even when I am not there.She has also cut off all contact with the G/daughter( something she has maintained since the seperation). One of Snodderly`s postings suggests that this is when they are very depressed perhaps withdrawn.For myself I am beginning to realise that I have no say in this matter and it`s time I GAL with or without her. Any comments anyone?
