You know this is a biggy for me. 14 months on, celebrating our 21st wedding anniversary in the Cotswolds, I bring up sexual positions!!!!! Why? It bugs me!! H hasn't thought about OW since the last time I mentioned her
H did look a bit shocked but he did answer. There is no right or wrong to this. You obviously haven't dealt with some things and put them to bed yet. See what your H does/ says when he gets back and take your cue from that.
I do manage to put the questions in a fairly jokey way. And YES it did help to know that the sex was crap and I DO believe that that was true. And it still hurts but knowing that does make me think that he might think very very hard,(!!!lol ), again about doing the same thing because it didn't satisfy him at all. That brings me comfort which can only help our realtionship in the building trust department. It works for me. IT'S PERSONAL.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
), again about doing the same thing because it didn't satisfy him at all. That brings me comfort which can only help our realtionship in the building trust department. It works for me. IT'S PERSONAL. 
