what is the ow thinking??

[ourcrisis]

Yes, make sure you look hot on that day. My H was quite concerned and asked questions (much more than usual) when I went out with male friends. The fact that he quickly changed the subject may indicate that: he does not care (unlikely or he would keep talking), he is guilty that's why he feels that he cannot say much to what you are doing. If he brings this up later on, just act as if it is just a normal outing, as with any other girlfriends.

I bought some sexy clothing when M was really bad and I was desparate. Surely that's not ME and now the clothing are all sitting in the closet :-) At least I learnt a lesson: dress nice, but appropiate :-)