Still Seperated and Hopeful

[Heartbroken]

Towards what I thought was the end of my DBing and onto the D path my H was pressured by his best friend to try counseling so finally H did come to me and say we could go. But it never went any further - since I did not initiate finding the counselor, setting up and appt. I said if you really want to go for us then you do the leg work otherwise he'd only be doing it for his best friend - to show "see we tried C and even that did not work"...

Not sure what to tell you - she is definately confused otherwise she would just be done and have already just filed. Not what you really want to hear but she probably needs time with OM to figure out that he is not going to make her any happier...her happiness can only come from herself and she cannot figure this out at this point...

Not much help here - sorry...

Does she know if you D that there will no longer be the friendship you two have now???? I don't think she does...

These WAS just want everything - it is such a selfish mode they are in....

HB