Thanks Me - I have come to the conclusion that the forgetting would be too much as well. She is a great woman making great mistakes and obviously suffering from something - MLC, depression - who knows. I can't help but think she will regret one day, but again, who knows. I have to move on, it is just hard to believe that my family has been broken and that I have lost my best friend whom I was accustomed to communicating with several times a day from work.
The WTC comment is just plain cruel!
Again, best of luck to you!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM