Hi, i'm new to the board and DB, but I have to say my sitch is similiar to yours. I have no advice for you other than to sympathise with you? Maybe we can swap ideas. I have posted on MLC and Piecing, under 'all hope is lost/help' sorry i have no idea how to link.
My H and I live well together as house mates, but I WANT to stay together and am reading and praying for clarity and advise like you.
Your XH must be happy with your stich to have you share his bed and feel desire enough to ML.
We don't have much hugging or hand holding either, but i'm hoping..
I would suggest that if you are unsure about what to do or what direction to take then you are not ready to move on and to do nothing, i'm sure you'll know when you are ready.
Keep posting
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P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
