There and Back, #7

[care]

Morgan,
I'm carrie. I'll be one of the DB'ers at the Boston event next month. Just wanted to pop in and introduce myself before we meet.
And I saw your last post. As Donna said, Please don't send an email like that to your H. I am not familiar with your sitch but your H needs to follow his own path without you. You can't offer him support, as much as he really may need or want it, he'll only resent it. resent it because he'll feel stuck or responsible for the way you feel, or because of what it is doing to his family.
He already knows these things but he doesn't need a reminder from you, because he'll only turn it around and give fuel to the fire of resentment towards you. Your good intentions will backfire.

Spend your energy instead on your kids and you. You'll all benefit from it.

looking forward to next month, carrie