I'm very glad you are feeling better. I do remember that yucky feeling I got in my stomache when I received the letter requesting a TRIAL date...just the whole thought of a trial for normal, law-abiding people is pretty scary. But as we've all said, you probably won't ever get there.
Hang tough, keep your demands high but reasonable, and enjoy the last veggies. I'm wanting to come to your house for dinner after reading that last post.
LIttle thread-jack, Angelica
Originally Posted By: angelica
I posted elsewhere today that I think one of the reasons they are so angry with us is that at some level they are not accessing, they still love us deeply. But in order to run away, and in most cases to have the new r [and to escape from dealing with their own emotional damage] they re-write history.
So they are in denial [MUCH more than a river]. I also think they are ashamed of how horribly they are behaving - a bit of them knows this. So they are a seething mass of conflict and involved [usually] with a complicated and needy person.
I am not blaming the OP [although at times I do!] but most people that get involved with a married person are hardly emotionally firing on all four cylinders are they?
For some reasons, this just really hit home, and rang true to me today. Although I've read it, and said it myself before, I think recent events and some little tiny bit of distance are causing it to really sink in. Thanks for posting so clearly.
Hugs to you all, and good going always, you got Mickey to start a thread.
