Well, at least you are going to C and w/ a GOOD ONE! I will also tell you though that my H did go to C about 2 times w/ me and then at that last session, said he had no desire to work on anything, was done and that was it. I kept going for myself for awhile until I just felt like I was going around & around in circles. He did end up coming around on his own. His thinking was that his "life long partner" should JUST KNOW "these things" i.e. how he is feeilng, etc. He should not have to explain everything and C's & the books, etc. are all crap. Anyway, like I said, he found his way back on his own. SO, the moral of the story is, if he doesn't allow the C to help, don't let that get to you either.

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 09/26/07 10:53 AM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10