Catch 22 of Epic Proportions?

[mkultra]

Lol are you my brother? Sorry, I know you are in pain right now but my brother is a real go getter who is building his new law firm but has put his R to his wife on the back burner temporarily. Watch out. DBers see all now in other people's Rs!!!

Avoid all R talk. "Where is this relationship, separation, divorce going?"
Keep conversation light and positive, great idea about sports and cats.
Always be positive and do not offer advice as it may seem controlling.
Show respect to all people.
Listen twice as much as you speak. Two ears, one mouth.
Work out. Try yoga. It will help calm and center you while you get more flexible.
Remember why you fell in love and got married in the first place.
Show her you are the same fun person she married.
You get to work together so you have a lot of positives to work with here!

You sound like you care about your employees so this is a great start.
If you are Type A, become Type B. I am Type B which means I listen and observe and I am a follower, not a leader. I enjoy leisurely pace which may mean my house is not always picked up but I enjoy the company of others. try it. My bro can't do that. He is so TYPE A he has to orchastrate everything, even leisure!