Just checking in after a few days' absence. How are you and the family doing?
Nothing new with me and WAW. She's still stone cold silent. I'm still avidly reading, talking with friends and living my life. I really have realized that it's my job to create some joy for myself and others each day. I'm not living in the past; nor am I worrying about the future. Focus on living the moment, feeling all your feelings at any particular time.
I saw a great quote somewhere on these boards over the weekend. Don't know if it's "famous" or if it came from a poster, but it basically said to keep healing and developing yourself. One day you will look at your side and either see your spouse, or he/she will be so far behind you that at that point it won't matter. Sounds like good advice to me.
Terrence Real has a powerful quote that sticks with me. Basically he says that we are stuck in the relationship matrix we grew up in until we do the hard work to get on a different road. Usually we have to be jolted out of that programming from childhood, and sometimes that means divorce. Either we get off the old road with our spouses or someone new, but we must do it to live a fuller life.
