Neph, no one should hate you for being the OW when youwere young. I just told my good friend last night that I do not even blame my H's OW for her role in this affair. I am sure every side has their own story. It is extremely difficult when children are involved but our roles are quite typical, yes? The nagging wife, the disrespected aging husband, the younger naive OP, the small children. C'mon it is all so Lifetime Television mini series! I understand the Walk Away Wife Syndrome is quite predicatable also, alonh with the wayward husband. The ammunition we have is Divorce Remedy. And I am glad we are here for each other for this forum. I can see that the glass is half full and no matter what happens I am so glad to have someone who understands what it is like. Thank you for your insight into being the OW. I was alos once the OP and did not know until I was not invited to my "boyfreind's" birthday party. I was good enough to sleep with but not good enough to meet the family and friends because the real girlfriend was there in my place. Ouch.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."