Thanks all for clearing this up. Guess some things just come natural. I guess I realized that the being down, crying, and begging was just driving him farther away. So I learned on my own to "act as if" I was okay. That I was just going on with life no matter what happens with him.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!