{{{Morgan}}} You have every right to be proud of how you handled that. You sounded so strong! I know how hard that must have been for you. And that is coming from the Queen of Attached.
You asked why...because they know us so well. Because they spent so many years with us. Even if most of them has moved on, they are still getting used to the new dynamic, too. And you did what was best--you gave him the 180. He does not get to have you open up anymore, not your brain, not your body. You have set healthy boundaries, and he will respect you more because of that.
Morgan, because of your strength and heart, you will get what you deserve in life--either a renewed M with H, or peace and happiness in your own right.
I am quickly getting to the point that I am happy that my H did not relent and come back while I was so desperate--who knows what I would have sacrificed of myself.
I know it is small consolation, but Morgan, you are an inspiration...
