Thankyou all for dropping in. I have said it before but the people who frequent this site and not only put the effort in to thier own issues but support others along the way are .... well i dont even have the words but you all know.
The good news is I am feeling much better today , My D had a problem with a friend last night and was quite upset , I used my DBing skills to support her and later we ended up playing a board game and laughing so that lifted me up as well.
Other than that there has been little change , W did ask to talk with me after speaking with D on the phone and tried to joke with me , it was lost on me at first because its been so long , then some general chit chat and then a request for help with some expenses . I agreed to help because it involved D and D had been excited about it. I let W know in a nice way , I think I said " Hey D is looking forward to this so I am happy to help out , I wouldnt want her to be disapointed"
I think a few things have caused me to feel worn down , one is being a full time father and also working full time . Spending evenings ironing is not my idea of fun. Also this has impacted on my ability to GAL so I am going to have to do better.
. I agreed to help because it involved D and D had been excited about it. I let W know in a nice way , I think I said " Hey D is looking forward to this so I am happy to help out , I wouldnt want her to be disapointed"