The View From the Bottom

[always_14]

Nice reply.

Sweetie, it doesn't sound like he wants a D. Trust me, I can show you what that looks like (ha ha...laughing about Dr. 6th Sense!!!).

But, I can understand how this limbo is very difficult for you.

Trust that answers will come when the time is right.

[Cinderellaman]

The two of you have the memories of all the good times together. I believe that will eventually hold a lot of weight with your H when he comes out of the tunnel.

Someone said these exact same words to me the other day !!! GOAL, you are spot on.......we can only hope !

[Truelove]

Hi Hope,
Just checking in on you. - I hope you feel a bit better today. HUGS

[Grace_O]

Hope,

I hope you're doing ok today. I swa that it's your anniversary on Drew's thread. Best wishes.

[hopefloats7]

Thanks Grace. I appreciate that. So thoughtful.
I'm ok. This is the third time it passes without H & I being together.

[Grace_O]

I hope it gets easier. I just recently passed my first one. Even though he's still at home....he isn't.

Of course it's always cause for chocolate. I ordered these great truffles from Chicago this year (I even shared).

[Truelove]

Hi Hope,
I am sorry that it is already the 3rd anniversary you are alone. I can imaging how you feel.

I am sure though that happier days will lie ahead of you. HUGS

[hopefloats7]

Grace, I know what you mean. I have a friend in a very similar situation. It's funny how many people are dealing with this and you don't even know it until you start opening up about your own situation.
There is so much less drama now because I moved away from it all. That doesn't mean I'm less sad; there are just no further touch & go's happening.
Christmas in 3 months...wow. Well, hey, at least I have kitty and puppy. We'll make the best of it.

[ShadesofGrey]

Hi Hope. Glad to hear you are doing okay today. It is so hard to get through special days. I made it through one anniversary alone, I do hope it gets easier for both of us.

I'm sure you're getting lots of love from puppy and kitty!! We just got a cat about a month ago. She is so loving and the kids adore her.

Lots of hugs and love to you!!
Shades

[hopefloats7]

Hi Shades!

It is so good to hear from you. How are you adjusting?
Thanks for the support. I am actually ok. Last year, I was still very emotional; the year before that I was still in shock. This year, it isn't quite as awful. It's like a sad memory. I don't even feel married anymore. That isn't supposed to sound as bad as it just did; it's hard to explain. It's just been so long.