a ring problem

[built4speed]

Hey, man, nice to hear from you but sad you're here.

I still gat that kind of thing. Anytime the conversation gets confrontational (like I paid for the whole month of CS and now that the payroll deducts started, she won't give the money back) it means I have issues and I need to let go and I need to see my C. There is nothing you can do about her opinion, only your actions.

The ring thing is perverse. I fail to see how you wearing your ring is controlling her. How does that logic (or emotion) work?

You need to do what you need to do to protect yourself, grow, get on with your life, survive the D with as much sanity, adult behavior and cash as possible, and let her go do her thing. In five years she'll be spitting about some other guy. Not your problem anymore.