I heard over & over "I only love you as a person and the mother of my children and that's it." I said bullsh*t. Stubborn redhead that I am \:\)

I know how much it hurts though. It's absolutely unbelievable at times, I know.

Hang in there. Show him the woman he married and still truly loves and the woman he would never want to leave. Do it for yourself -- figure out what changes you could be making that are positive for you. As hard as it is, no R talk, it will just push him away.

I know reading & reading threads around here helped me a lot.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10