How many details of OP did you get, want, need?

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But I'm starting to think maybe the reason he can't talk about it is it still hurts him and maybe HE hasn't dealt with it.
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oh come on hon, you are beating a dead horse, would it make you feel better to know that they had a BLAST, were making out all the time and their fav ride happens to be one of your fav ride?
Sweets, i'm rolling my eyes at you, haven't I 've been a horrible example enough of knowing too much? should I share ow's email to my H to you and send you her naked picts? would you like to see that but about your H and that ow?

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"Why does this still come up?" and "It's over."
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Remember, the more you bring up op, the fresher her memory will be on your H's mind, my H told me that, that he'd be doing fine and here I came with questions that had nothing to do with anything important and it made him think of her again.

Ask questions that will bring up healing to the M, knowing how often they had sex is just going to bumb you out.

But I know how it is hon, how our minds sometimes have setbacks, as if we didn't know what's better for us, I was despairing again just this week, and had to remind myself by reading old posts about being patient and all that good stuff.

There shouldn't be secrets between a couple, but somethings are better left to die.