Madonna/Whore Part 8 (aka Attachment Therory)

[Heywyre]

(in addition to what I have previously posted)
Ouch, more? I understand why some things go un-said.

Yes, there has been A LOT more. That was primarily the reason I was ready to walk, before my brother ended up in hospital.

Some posters on the SSM forum didn't spill all of the beans for 3 years.

I doubt I will ever be in that position. As far as I am concerned it is water under the bridge and will do nothing more than bring more bad memories to the surface for me

Yes, I have detached and have still remained considerate of H's feelings. As much as I detest what he has done, and how he continues to sabotage our R, regardless of the consequences we face, I also don't think he is consciously doing a lot of it - some would say different for sure but I think after 19 years of being together, I know him pretty well. That is the primary reason I am holding out until he sees this new therapist. It seems like she has a totally different approach altogether. As a matter of fact, when H called last week to cancel the appointment, she wanted to talk to him directly and he mentioned to me how impressed he was with her in the way she spoke (already?) Regardless of what his reasons are for seeming to be "impressed" with this new therapist, I don't really care. If he thinks it will work, that's half the battle won right there.